Honouring Thelma - Denise Rhodes
We often honour mothers during our Mother’s Day service by sharing memories or reflecting on something that we value.
I have been thinking lately about the legacy of Christian faith that mothers can pass down. The Bible gives a beautiful example in a letter Paul wrote to Timothy, saying, “I am reminded of your sincere faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice and, I am persuaded, now lives in you also” (2 Timothy 1:5).
We are blessed to have several older mothers whose example of faith in Jesus Christ, love for God and the way they live their lives have left a lasting impact on their children, grandchildren and even great-grandchildren.
My mother was one such mother. Her granddaughter remembers her faith and unwavering love for God and His Word. One of my memories is of her sitting up in bed each morning, reading her Bible and praying. She prayed for her family, various Christian organisations, friends, missionaries, and the church. These practices she instilled in my brother Paul and me, we maintain them today. My mother was Thelma Rhodes, who some older residents may remember from when she worked in the Post Office. She was a long-term member of DCF, from when she moved to Darlington in the 1950s. She remained an active and faithful member until going into care in 2015.
Mum’s Christian faith was seen in very practical ways, and she had what the Bible calls a gift of service. She didn’t like the limelight, but was quietly there with a cake, a meal, a bunch of flowers or a thoughtful note when help was needed.
It is through her great years of walking with her Lord that our family can declare our faith as well.
As we celebrate Mother’s Day, I encourage all mothers to reflect on the legacy being passed to your future generations. My hope is that it will be one of love for God and faith in Jesus, just as my mother shared with us.
Happy Mother’s Day to all the wonderful mothers out there!
Denise Rhodes
